Sisters - February

So here we are half way through the month and time for the Siblings Project hosted by Lucy at Dear Beautiful. In the past four weeks the girls have started playing more make-believe games and interacting a lot more without my help. Their favourite games are ‘holidays’ and ‘schools’, both initiated by Lili who is now becoming more imaginative with her games and Poppy is happy to join in. Usually Lili plays the ‘teacher’ and does the register, while Poppy shouts ‘yes’ after every name. They also like packing their little cases for ‘holidays’, of course when I say ‘pack’ I mean books and toys, not clothes or anything useful. I think my love of holidays is already starting to rub-off on them! They’re also enjoying running around the kitchen and still love playing hide and seek. They’re now able to really communicate with each other, which makes playing, as well as ‘falling out’ much easier.

This month the girls have had their hair cut which was much needed, Poppy now has a very cute little short bob, while Lili only agreed to a little trim but as it was only her third ever hair cut I was happy that she agreed to anything (the film Tangled has a lot to answer for!). We’ve also had the school bear stay with us, when Lili was named Star of the Week - which was a very exciting and proud day for us all. She’d been wanting this important award since she started school back in September!

Here are a few snaps I took of the girls on our bed last week. They were sat with me while I got ready for a day out and were getting on so well, happily giggling away and holding hands - so I thought I’d take advantage of the opportunity!

dear beautiful

My Baby’s Turning Two

Tomorrow my baby turns two, I’m going to write that again, tomorrow my baby turns two. To be honest it doesn’t matter how many times I write, say or think it, I can’t actually believe it. How can it be two years since this little star came into our lives?

This pictures was taken two years ago today. It was my due date and based on past experience (with my first daughter) I thought we still had a good few days to go. Unknown to me, 24 hours later she would be out and in my arms. Poppy literally came shooting into the world like super girl and has been amazing us every day since.

Five things Poppy has taught me over the past 2 years

1) Not all babies cry for hours on end - my eldest daughter (bless her) had colic and suffered for 4 hours a day for three months. It was a difficult time but we got through it. The first few months with Poppy was calm and much more enjoyable.

2) How it feels to have a ‘mini me’ - Poppy is my double with her big brown eyes, cheeky smile and stubborn manner. My eldest daughter is like her dad in every way. When she was a baby a few people assumed I was her nanny because we looked so different. This time there is no question! I can literally see myself in her eyes, which is an amazing feeling.

3) That sisters who have been nurtured in the same way can be completely different. My two have a different temperament, personality, attitude and skill set. I now know that you are born with your own personality, of course the environment will shape a few things but on the whole you are who you are.

4) How special the relationship between two sisters can be - I don’t have a sister but watching these two together makes me very envious of this special bond. They’ll always have each other and I hope will always be as close as they are now.

5) That the amazing, overwhelming love you have for your first child CAN be repeated and IS as strong the second time. Before I had Poppy, I couldn’t imagine I could love anyone as much as I loved Lili. And so, as prepared as I was to give birth, I was scared that I wouldn’t feel the same for my second child. It turns out that I had nothing to be worried about, the love was there straight away, in a big wave just like the first time!

Happy Birthday to my little Star!

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Getting to know you

This is one of my favourite pictures and is now over two years old. It was taken on my bed a few mornings after we brought Poppy home from the hospital. I love the way they’re looking at each other so intensely, just getting to know one another with no words or contact, just a look.