Me and Mine – February

Me and Mine is a great monthly project co-hosted by six amazing bloggers. The idea is to share a family portrait on a monthly basis and give a little write-up of what you’ve been up to during the month.

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This month…

* We’ve joined the National Trust and are looking forward to a year of NT adventures.

* Lili was Star of the Week at school and got to bring home the ‘class bear’.

* Dom and I have continued to watch Game of Thrones on DVD, we’re now on season 4 (yes, we’re still obsessed!)

* We all spent the day at Gatton Park, walking round the forest and stunning grounds.

* I spent a very relaxing day at a London Spa with a good friend, which was much needed and very appreciated.

* Lili and Poppy finally had their hair cut, although I could only get Lili to agree to half an inch!

* The girls I went on a ‘Hedgehog Hunt’ at our local ecology centre, it was such a lovely little half-term adventure.

* Lili and Poppy had their first ride on a pony at our local City Farm.

* Dom and I had a very rare date night on a Saturday night, while my lovely mum was staying with us. It’s so important to make time for each other but so difficult when we don’t have family around to babysit.

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My Captured Moment #8

Welcome to My Captured Moment, a weekly linky where I share my favourite ‘Captured Moments’ and invite you to do the same.

This week ‘my captured moment’ is a random shot I took of Pops this week. It was five o’clock in the afternoon and she was having a mini (2 year old) tantrum, so I took her to the ‘time-out step’ to ‘think about her behaviour’. I went back two minutes later and found her like this, curled up in a little ball asleep. Of course I then felt awful, realising she was ‘playing-up’ because she was over tired.

After I took the photo on my phone I picked her up and she slept on my lap for thirty blissful minutes before we had supper. Thankfully, it didn’t affect bed time and she went down at 7.30pm as usual . Bless her, she must have been shattered – it was the tail end of half-term so maybe having her big sister home to play with had taken it out of her.

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Share your Moments

Your ‘My Captured Moment’ can be a single picture or a series of shots, new (taken this week) or old, with or without words. The idea is to simply share a moment in time you’ve captured on your camera and make sure it doesn’t go unseen. This could include vintage shots of your own childhood and beyond or a simple picture you’ve recently taken and want to ‘show off’.

How to Play Along

• Link up every Thursday to Sunday (ending at 11.55pm)

• Add my badge (or link back to my website using #MyCapturedMoment) at the bottom of your post.

• Share the love – try to comment on at least three other posts. After all that’s what it’s all about.

Go Social

Tweet your posts to me @HeleddLavender using the hashtag #MyCapturedMoment and I’ll retweet. Hashtag your picture #MyCapturedMoment on Instagram (follow me @HeleddLavender) so we can share our pictures and hopefully get some new followers and likes.

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My Ebay House

Yes, I have an eBay house! Well not really but a lot of the furniture inside the house has come from eBay. It started as a bit of a thrifty way of decorating the house when we first moved in, almost three years ago. We’d stretched ourselves as much as possible to buy the house and to do the necessary kitchen extension, so there was very little money left to buy furniture. You know things like a dinning table and chairs, mirrors, book shelfs and coffee tables. The little things that make a house a home.

We had sofas and beds from our previous house but as that was a much smaller house, we didn’t have all the other bits we needed to fill and furnish this new house. As soon as I started looking on eBay, I was hooked! For me it’s the most addictive thing on the Internet (after Pinterest of course), I kept finding unique, beautiful items at bargain prices and once I’d ‘won’ the fist thing, I was away.

Almost three years on and I’m still ‘over the moon’ with all our eBay purchases. Here are some of my favourite pieces…

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This oak book shelf was £20 and we painted it with Annie Slone ‘Old White’ paint.

ebay tableThis oak farmhouse style dinning table and six miss-match (and now pretty shabby but I think chic) chairs were an amazing bargain at £125! I love how the table is old and full of history, and now we get to make our own memories on it.

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I’ve always wanted a dresser so when I saw this, I knew I wanted it in the kitchen. It’s the perfect colour and offers great storage for all those little bits and bobs. I managed to get this for £95!

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We needed a little coffee table for the living room and this was the perfect size and colour. Another ebay bargain at £40.

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I was a little worried about this mirror when it first arrived but I think it works really well here on the fireplace. I won this for an incredible £8 – seriously how can you go wrong?!

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In all honesty this little bed side table does need a little re-paint but after three years and only £12 (plus £9 for the new knobs from Zara Home) I’m still really pleased with it.

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Okay, I know these platters and plates are not furniture but I do plan to have them arranged on the wall. I love the bright blue and pretty patterns on each one. To be honest they’ve become a bit of a collection, I keep searching for more although I know I’ve got more than enough.  They were all priced between £2-£12 each.

Even though my little ebay obsession was born out of necessity, I’m more than happy with the results and will continue to bid and buy from the famous auction site.  Soon we’ll be re-decorating the girls’ room and I know where I’ll be looking for antique toy boxes and wall prints.

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My Beauty Hub with Jess from Mummy of Boy Girl Twins

As you may already know I love talking about beauty products and playing around with lotions and potions. A few weeks ago I shared my favourite beauty products and recommendations in a post called My Beauty Hub Q&A. This week my yummy mummy friend Jess from Mummy of Boy Girl Twins is sharing her favourite products and answering my Beauty Hub questions…

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1) What is your day time make-up uniform?

Foundation, blusher, eye shadow, eye-liner and mascara. Every day. It makes me feel ready for the day. I never wear lipstick or lipgloss unless I am going out at night.

2) What do you use to wash/ cleanse your face?

I cleanse and tone each night. Then moisturise. All my products are from the Simple range.

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3) What is your most indulgent beauty product?

I only use Clinique and Benefit make-up. I own most of their make-up range – oooops! I like nice make-up!

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4) What is your favourite super market beauty product?

I’ve never really tried one! Although I have heard that Aldi do a great eye cream, which I must try!

5) Do you have a favourite body product?

I like to use a creamy shower gel (from a Supermarket) in the morning, and a body butter (from Boots) in the evening.

6) What would be your desert island beauty item?

Foundation. I can’t leave the house without it.

7) What is your number one hair care product?

A good conditioner. I love the Aussie range.

8) You’re at a Spa, what treatment would you choose?

Massage or something similar to relax. I love getting facials too, they really cleanse my skin.

9) Do you have a signature scent?

Not any more. However Miss Dior is my current favourite as I got some for Christmas.

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10) What do you use in the bath?

Shower gel and an exfoliator, I love the Sanctuary Spa range.

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Over the next few months I’m going to be asking some of my blogging friends the same questions and serialising their answers in a regular Beauty Hub post. If you’d like me to feature you in My Beauty Hub, please copy these questions and email me you answers (heleddinlavender@gmail.com), along with your blog URL, social media details and a picture of yourself.

Thanks for taking part Jess xx

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My Captured Moment #7

Welcome to My Captured Moment, a weekly linky where I share my favourite ‘Captured Moments’ and invite you to do the same.

This week ‘my captured moment’ is a series of shots I took a few days ago at Gatton Park. As you can see Lili was having a great time climbing in the woodlands – the light was magical and I love how the bright red of her hat really stands out.

For me these shots represent a moment in time, she’s four years old and loves being outdoors, exploring and finding adventure. We recently went to the cinema to watch ‘Into the Woods’ which is a musical retelling of a number of fairytale stories and these pictures really remind me of that film.

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I also took this great shot of a very happy Poppy, which I know will always make me smile!

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Share your Moments

Your ‘My Captured Moment’ can be a single picture or a series of shots, new (taken this week) or old, with or without words. The idea is to simply share a moment in time you’ve captured on your camera and make sure it doesn’t go unseen. This could include vintage shots of your own childhood and beyond or a simple picture you’ve recently taken and want to ‘show off’.

How to Play along

• Link up every Thursday to Sunday (ending at 11.55pm)

• Add my badge (or link back to my website using #MyCapturedMoment) at the bottom of your post.

• Share the love – try to comment on at least three other posts. After all that’s what it’s all about.

Go Social

Tweet your posts to me @HeleddLavender using the hashtag #MyCapturedMoment and I’ll retweet. Hashtag your picture #MyCapturedMoment on Instagram (follow me @HeleddLavender) so we can share our pictures and hopefully get some new followers and likes.

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5 Ways to Improve your Family Photography

This is a guest post from my friend David (who’s also married to my oldest friend in the world) and is a talented photographer based in West Wales…

Let’s face it most people hate having their photo taken. People tend to be very critical of their appearance or worry about a facial feature that 99.9% of people looking at the photo will never see BUT what happens when you look back at photos of yourself in years to come? The reaction will most likely be “actually I didn’t look too bad back then” – we are all our own worst critics.

Photos are important. They capture the story, a moment in time. There are huge gaps in my life with few photos of me with my family – down to the fact that I hated being in front of the camera. Unfortunately after loosing members of my family it’s something that I now regret. Sorry for getting serious all of a sudden but photos are important!

You don’t necessarily need an expensive camera to take great pictures. Chase Jarvis said – “The best camera is the one you have with you” and for the majority of people probably means the mobile phone in your pocket. The majority of my pictures are taken either using my iPhone or a small compact camera that I keep with me most of the time.

I took up photography relatively late in life, if I’m honest the catalyst was the birth of my son. Ever since, I have been
hooked and now have a great collection of photos of us and him growing up. This is not to say that my first attempts were any good but I have learnt much over the years and hopefully you can learn from my mistakes!

My five steps to improving your family photos!

1. Find the Light
For me light is the most import factor to consider. People often ask why their photos are grainy or dark – well it’s simply down to poor light. Without getting too technical, cameras do a great job in ‘good, even light’ but struggle when the light is either too bright or too dark. When faced with a dark scene, a camera (especially a mobile phone camera) will try to guess what colour objects are. This often ends up with grainy images and lots of strange colours and tones. Alternatively, when you point a camera at a very bright scene it does the opposite and tries to compensate by darkening the overall photo, often leaving the subject dark and the face unrecognisable.
So what can you do? Here are a few things to remember. A patio or a large glass doors will often produce a beautiful light, especially in the morning or evening. Avoid direct sunlight as this often makes people squint and leaves harsh shadows on their faces.

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This picture was taken early morning and my son was facing a large glass door creating a nicely lit picture with no shadows.

 

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This picture was taken with an iPhone, again in front of a large window in a coffee shop. Notice how sharp and clear the picture is. This is down to the fact that when the subject is well lit, the camera can focus very accurately on the part of the picture that you want to be in focus – the eyes!

2. The eyes tell the story…
When someone looks at a photo for the first time they notice two things. The first is the eyes and the second is the mouth (hopefully smiling!). This leads me to my next tip – make sure you can see the eyes and ensure that they are in focus. When the eyes are sharp and in focus, it draws you into the photo.
If you follow the first tip (have good light) and have the eyes in focus, you can achieve what photographers call “catch lights” in the eyes. This is the little white reflection in the eyes and gives the picture and the person an extra sparkle!

3. Get down to their level…
All of my photos are taken at the same level, or at the same height – this is the level of the child’s eyes. This rule can be applied to nearly all subjects including pets! I see lots of photos of children where they are taken from a standing height of an adult. This just makes you feel more distant and gives less of a connection to the subject.

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4. Don’t show your clutter
Try to keep the background of your photo as simple and uncluttered as possible. Bright lights, mess, rubbish, shoes, windows and general untidiness create distractions when looking at a picture. You want to focus on the subject, not showing everyone how messy you are (like me!).

5. Apps and Gadgets
There are hundreds of great apps out there to help edit your photos. Cameras aren’t as good as the human eye at reproducing a scene. So find a good App and get editing! You can make sure that the image is straight, you can brighten it up or reduce the brightness. Apps that I have used include Photoshop Mobile, Camera+ and Snapseed – and are all excellent. Note – I’m an iPhone user, but I assume Android phones have similar.

Two last quick tips…If you have one of the newer iPhones, the volume switch on the headphone (when attached to the phone) acts as a trigger to take a photo.

Lastly if you have a tripod, use it! It’s the one thing that improves any photo. You can get adapters to attached mobile phones to a tripod. If you want to get a small tripod, consider a gorilla grip or similar.

So that’s it, get out there and get snapping!

David’s work can be seen at Towy Photography, on his Facebook page and on his twitter page @caerwynt_loops. If you have any questions you can email him at [email protected].

All images Copyright – David Rice

Thanks so much David for all these great tips! I have a lot to learn but am enjoying the process!

 

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Sunday Stars 15th Feb

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Welcome back to our Sunday Stars linky, a place for you to share your favourite posts each week.

Myself and a group of lovely bloggers decided to start this linky together. We wanted to create a place where all our favourite posts from the week could be easily shared and then thought why not let everyone join in! We take it in turns each week to host but we all comment and re-tweet throughout the week.

Last week’s Top Reads

Last week’s ‘Star’ posts came from Slouching in Thatcham with a post that is hysterically funny and brilliantly captures the idiosyncrasies of social media and the people that grace it!

And Mummascribbles who wrote a beautiful and heartfelt account of a sad and tragic part of their lives for World Cancer Day. If you haven’t read it yet, I’d recommend you take a look.

Back to this week…

This linky is designed to give everyone a place to show off their favourite posts and make sure they don’t go unread. This week it’s myself and Amy from Everything Mummy are hosting and we can’t wait to read your star posts!

Tweet your posts to either of us (@heleddlavender or @amycooperem) and @SundaysStars using the hashtag #sundaystars and we’ll RT. We’ll also be pinning your posts to the Sunday Stars pinterest board.

Next weeks hosts will be the lovely Karen from Mini Travellers and Jess from Mummy of Boy Girl Twins so keep an eye out for them next Sunday.

The Rules:

• You can link up to 3 post old or new, anything that you are really proud of and want to share.

Please remember to add the Sunday Stars badge to the bottom of your posts.

• Share the love – try and comment on at least three other posts. After all that’s what it’s all about.

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Sisters – February

So here we are half way through the month and time for the Siblings Project hosted by Lucy at Dear Beautiful. In the past four weeks the girls have started playing more make-believe games and interacting a lot more without my help. Their favourite games are ‘holidays’ and ‘schools’, both initiated by Lili who is now becoming more imaginative with her games and Poppy is happy to join in. Usually Lili plays the ‘teacher’ and does the register, while Poppy shouts ‘yes’ after every name. They also like packing their little cases for ‘holidays’, of course when I say ‘pack’ I mean books and toys, not clothes or anything useful. I think my love of holidays is already starting to rub-off on them! They’re also enjoying running around the kitchen and still love playing hide and seek. They’re now able to really communicate with each other, which makes playing, as well as ‘falling out’ much easier.

This month the girls have had their hair cut which was much needed, Poppy now has a very cute little short bob, while Lili only agreed to a little trim but as it was only her third ever hair cut I was happy that she agreed to anything (the film Tangled has a lot to answer for!). We’ve also had the school bear stay with us, when Lili was named Star of the Week – which was a very exciting and proud day for us all. She’d been wanting this important award since she started school back in September!

Here are a few snaps I took of the girls on our bed last week. They were sat with me while I got ready for a day out and were getting on so well, happily giggling away and holding hands – so I thought I’d take advantage of the opportunity!

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Don’t Buy Me Flowers

With Valentine’s Day this weekend and Mother’s Day fast approaching I want to make a little point to my other half – Please don’t buy me flowers. Don’t get me wrong I like flowers, especially a lovely (and inexpensive) bunch of daffodils or tulips (and of course lavender) but anything over £5 is just a waste of money in my opinion. There’s nothing more depressing than seeing a bunch of wilted flowers in a house and lets face it they all wilt after a few days! I’d much prefer something I can keep and enjoy!

This got me thinking, if I don’t want flowers, what do I want? This is what I came up with (in the same “price area” as a good bunch of flowers)…

1) Aromatherapy Associates – Bath & Shower Oil (£40)

Anyone who knows me, or has read this blog will know that I’m a big fan of Aromatherapy Associates, for me they’re little bottles of aromatherapy medicine and are always at the top of my wish list. In truth I’d be happy with anything from their bath and body range but my favourite has to be their Relax Deep Bath & Shower Oil, it turns any bath into a mind and body ritual experience.

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2) Godiva – Chocolate covered strawberries (£13 per 350g)

Is there anything better than chocolate covered strawberries? I’m not so sure there is! And these special ones from Godiva are simply the best! I have high hopes for a box of these come Saturday morning. They’re pretty exclusive as you can only get them from Godiva shops in London, so obviously not readily available around the country. But next time you’re in London, I fully recommend you pop in to see what all the fuss is about.

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3) Accessorize – Z for Accessorize (from £12)

This new(ish) range from Accessorize has really caught my eye. They’re gold plated and designed with semi-precious stones and gems. I’ve already treated myself to a few pieces from the range but a few more would certainly be greatly received. The price point is slightly higher than the usual Accessorize jewellery but still much cheaper than a bunch of flowers on Valentine’s Day. And of course a beautiful necklace or bracelet will last a lot longer than a bunch of flowers. The range is pretty and cool with an Ibiza edge, I can imagine layering the pieces up over a simple white t-shirt in the summer months.

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4) Game of Thrones Season 4 DVD (£27)

Since Christmas my husband and I have been hooked by Game of Thrones! We watched season 1 and 2 in a few weeks and quickly followed that with season 3 but we’ve had to wait for season 4 as it’s not for sale until the 16th Feb. For anyone who’s watched GOT, you’ll know how addictive it is and how desperate I am to get my hands on the latest DVD in the series. After the tense and lets face it shocking end to season 3, I need to know what happens next!

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5) Jo Malone – Red Roses Candle (£40)

When all else fails I’m always more than happy to receive a beautiful scented candle and my candle of choice at this time of year has to be Jo Malone’s Red Roses. The scent is beautiful and romantic, and transforms the atmosphere into a relaxing and calming area. Just what you need for a date night at home, snuggled up on the sofa with your other half and a good film.

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Failing all of the above, I’d also be happy with a lie-in, breakfast in bed and a lovely, relaxing soak in the bath (with no interuptions from cute and well-meaning little people).

What do you want for Valentine’s Day or Mother’s Day?

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My Captured Moment #6

Welcome to My Captured Moment, a weekly linky where I share my favourite ‘Captured Moments’ and invite you to do the same.

This isn’t the best photo we’ve ever taken but it does mean a lot to us. It was taken moments after Dom proposed to me with that Haribo ring. It was our tenth anniversary and to be honest I was beginning to think he was never going to get down on one knee. Well he did and it was perfect!

We were staying at a beautiful small hotel in the south of France and that night we had the place to ourselves. The owner had plans, so he made us a delicious dinner and left us to enjoy it in the beautiful candle lit garden. The table was set, music was playing and after dinner he finally popped the question and naturally I said yes.

After we got home we went ring shopping and I got my dream ring.

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Share your Moments

Your ‘My Captured Moment’ can be a single picture or a series of shots, new (taken this week) or old, with or without words. The idea is to simply share a moment in time you’ve captured on your camera and make sure it doesn’t go unseen. This could include vintage shots of your own childhood and beyond or a simple picture you’ve recently taken and want to ‘show off’.

How to Play along

• Link up every Thursday to Sunday (ending at 11.55pm)

• Add my badge (or link back to my website using #MyCapturedMoment) at the bottom of your post.

• Share the love – try to comment on at least three other posts. After all that’s what it’s all about.

Go Social

Tweet your posts to me @HeleddLavender using the hashtag #MyCapturedMoment and I’ll retweet. Hashtag your picture #MyCapturedMoment on Instagram (follow me @HeleddLavender) so we can share our pictures and hopefully get some new followers and likes.

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